Last night, I didn't get to sleep at all...

Okay, I did get some sleep after all, but man, Insomnia kicked my butt last night. Just when I thought I could doze off...all my insecurities started in on me. Gnawing on my confidence. I then received a nice, encouraging email from a friend, and he hit right on what was bothering at that moment--though I hadn't said anything. In the email, he basically told me that he'd had all kinds of luck on Match.com and that I should try them out. But I just can't bring myself to PAY for a dating site. I know there's free options, too, but I'd be stuck with the same issues at TrekkieDating...