Say what?

Well, here is a huge reason gk2gk.com sucks. You have to pay to see anyone's photos. At all. So a guy who seems nice sent me a flirt today. He's younger (32), but seems nice enough, and it's possible we could get along. Not date, perhaps, but at least indoctrinate him into the Cool Kids Club (ie, the Five Year Mission fan club haha). I am not a shallow person, but I need to be able to see what someone looks like before I choose to talk to them. This is ridiculous. My only option is to send a "quick flirt" anyway. I can read aaaaallllllll the messages I receive, but I can only send to someone with a "gold" membership. Yes, their prices are cheap, but I refuse to pay. Refuse.