My sister and I were discussing the term BBW over the weekend. She said there are so many other terms to use instead of "big" that would work. She had a valid point, but it brought to mind something I seriously dislike.
Chubby Chasers.
These are the men who want big women, merely for the fact that she's big. They could care less about personality or health. They just want their women large. They have turned fat into a fetish. I find that just as disturbing as someone who only wants a girl who tans until she's orange. It's about the outside, the façade to these men.
I don't care for chubby chasers. You find me attractive? Okay, great, but it better be for more reasons than being chubby. You like a curvy girl, fine, but you better like a smart one. Big boobs, yep...and a smart ass. You may think you can handle me, but you won't get a chance if all you wanna do is handle me.
In other words, you better like me for me. The physical stuff just tags along.
I think sometimes the men get caught up in emphasizing that first hand because they assume us big girls all feel self-conscious about our weight and appearance.
ReplyDeleteTo me, if a guy is wanting me because of my junk in the trunk, then he better not START with that. It's fine to be attracted to me because of something like that (let's face it, booooooobs), but if that's ALL he wants, forget him. I won't waste my time on someone who only wants time for my waist.
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