So here it is, my birthday...and Second Guy backed out of our plans. It's so hard to even make plans with him, unless I know he's going to be somewhere and I just show up. For example, at Gen Con and there was a show where I saw a band he didn't even know I knew...both times I would have been there no matter what, of course.
I was on my way home when I got his text. He feels he's been too social, and therefore drank too much the last two weeks, and has also run out of funds, and shouldn't go out. Ok, I understand that, but at the same time, when we "firmed up" our plans the other day, it would have been nice if he'd said something more like, "I might not be able to go out on Monday, but I'll let you know if I'm available another day." Ya know, instead of the "Yeah, I can do that." Oy.
But that's the biggest problem with Second Guy. Indecision. Inability to choose what he wants...maybe he's still just really confused and messed up from his ex. It's totally possible. I mean, you think you know exactly what you want and think she's on the same page, when you suddenly get hit over the head with her changing her mind and saying everything you knew was a lie. *shrug* It's tough...
Anyway, frustrating. Really. Yeah.
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